Grow Up Already: A Guide To Adulting With Aloha

Let’s be honest—adulting is hard. No one hands you a manual on how to pay bills, cook something that isn’t instant noodles, or make it through a conversation with your in-laws without saying something regrettable. But guess what? Life doesn’t wait for you to figure it out.

Grow Up Already is the book your parents wish they had given you (and might still buy for you out of sheer desperation). It’s a practical, no-excuses guide to mastering the real-world skills every functioning adult needs—from managing money and time to keeping your home from looking like a crime scene. With witty humor, real-life stories, and painfully honest advice, this book tackles the essentials of adulthood:

• Building Discipline – Because waiting for motivation is how you end up living in chaos.
• Work Ethic 101 – Showing up on time and actually doing the job isn’t optional.
• Basic Life Skills – Laundry, cooking, cleaning—yes, you have to do them.
• Finances Without the Headache – Budgeting, credit, and why your bank account is always empty.
• Navigating Relationships – Friendships, family, and why “hanging out” isn’t enough.
• Giving Back – Because the world doesn’t revolve around you (shocking, I know).
• Leaving a Legacy – Living with purpose, passion, and integrity so people actually show up at your funeral.

If you’re tired of just getting by and want to take control of your life with confidence and competence, this book is for you. Grow Up Already will teach you what you should have learned by now—but in a way that won’t make you want to take a nap halfway through.

Adulthood isn’t a punishment—it’s an opportunity. And this book will help you make the most of it.